I am a Sex, Relationship and Erotic Blueprint Coach
I am an expert in the field of sexuality and relationship.
I believe that each of us can live a life filled with vitality, eroticism, passion and love. I believe the more embodied we are, the more present we are, the more capacity we have to make positive choices for ourselves, our loved ones, our communities and for the world. It is my passion to help awaken and support the capacity within each of us to be our most present and responsive selves.
What does sex, eroticism and passion have to do with being present and responsive? In my experience it’s essential. We are born to live fully in our bodies, present to each unfolding moment, deeply connected to ourselves and others. When we do this, we are able to listen to a deeper wisdom that can guide our actions and choices. Our ability to experience pleasure and especially experience sexual pleasure is a kind of pulse that moves through us. We come from sex. Sex and sexual energy is in us. Most of us have not fully claimed our sex. We have not claimed and celebrated our sexual expression. In fact, many of us are lost. I was once lost too.
Early in my life I experienced a medical emergency and near death experience. This had a profound effect on me. It affected how I felt in my body, my lack of ability to feel safe or to feel the essence of who I was at my core. It affected my sense of connection to others and to myself, as I didn’t know how to go deeper to find my own guidance system. It left me with trauma in my body, feeling either numb or overwhelmed. It left me with body, soul and spiritual questions.
When it later came to dating and relationships, I spent time in unsatisfying relationships and much time avoiding intimate relationships all together. During this time, my journey of reclaiming myself began. In all honesty, as is true for many of us, I was driven to this journey by my own feelings of pain.
I began to explore how to heal my trauma, my body and my heart. I found a somatic therapist and began working with them. I soon utilized EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, Touch Therapy and Emotional Freedom Technique to heal past experiences, release trauma, process blocked energy and began to experience my body as a joyful playground. I earned my Master’s Degree and began working with individuals and couples who experienced trauma. I continued to explore my own healing and this new embodied playground of my body by practicing Orgasmic Meditation, becoming a sex educator, becoming a Sexological Bodyworker and a Bondassage/Elysium practitioner. I studied with the extraordinary Jaiya and became an Erotic Blueprint Coach. The Erotic Blueprints allowed me to understand my sexual self in a much deeper and more nuanced way. I learned my partner’s Erotic Blueprint and how to create deeper, more satisfying sexual experiences for us. I learned to access ecstatic states and they became a place of utter connection and transformation for me. The body, soul and spiritual questions I had early in my life were answered. I could feel connected to the bigger energy of the universe and the feelings of awe and wonder at the extraordinary experience of being alive. And, I could live in my body, embodied and connected to myself and others. It was not always easy and at times my journey was filled with messy emotions, stuck places, resistance and shame. Now, if I find myself temporarily adrift, I know how to pleasurably come back home to myself.
My journey has brought me to where I am now. I live my life filled with love, sex, intimacy and eroticism. I know how to be an Erotic Team with my partner. I live with my huge capacity for pleasure and ecstatic states, and have the mastery to access them whenever I choose. I live and own my eroticism. And it is my pleasure to share what I have learned with you.
My Professional Studies and Certificates
Certified Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Coach
Somatic Experiencing Trauma Resolution Practitioner
EMDR Practitioner
Emotional Freedom Tapping Technique Practitioner
Certified Sexological Bodyworker (Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco)
Sex Educator Certificate (San Francisco Sex Information)
Bondassage and Elysium Practitioner
Training in Tantra, Creating Sensual Experiences, Sex tech and toys, and Kinky Play
Additional training on Adult Attachment Styles, Couples Work and Somatic Parts Work
Knowledgable of Biohacking Techniques to enhance sexual health and sexual pleasure